- Talking about your ex. If she wanted to date your ex it would
be ok. Chances are she'd rather know you.
- Too physically aggressive. The key word here is aggressive. There's
plenty of time. Don't rush.
- Talk only about work, hunting, sports or yourself. Boring! Does
she look interested? Does she look like she's play acting?
- Not participating in the conversation. The package may look great
on the outside, but the inside is usually better.
- Bragging about how much you own or make. If you have to brag about
it, you may feel you have nothing else to offer.
- Discussing personal life such as bills or portfolios. These things
are private and don't enhance romance on first dates.
- Being a discourteous smoker or chewing tobacco. A real turn off
to a woman who doesn't smoke or chew.
- Bringing up sexual topics for discussion. It's very offensive
on first dates. Save it for later.
- Being dishonest about life. Be yourself, she'll find out the truth
sooner or later.
- Discussing health problems. Not on first dates, it's a private
thing.
- Poor posture, slouching. Bad posture implies insecurity or laziness,
which are you trying to be?
- Flirting with other women while on a date. Surely no man who cares
about his date would consider this bad behavior.
- Carrying a cell phone or beeper that disrupts the date. Why don't
you just invite all your friends and office staff on the date.
- Indecisive about where to go on a date. If you can't handle something
that simple, you're really in trouble.
- Not willing to try new things. Shows an unwillingness to work
together in other areas of life.
- Taking her somewhere so friends can check her out. If you're old
enough to date, you don't need your friends' approval.
- Picking her up in a vehicle that is dirty or cluttered. Indicates
the kind of impression you're trying to make, you figure it out.
- Eating off her plate. A gentleman would never presume to do such
a thing.
- Expecting intimacy before friendship. Never expect intimacy. But
cherish it when it happens.
- Meeting with someone and then sneaking out. Shows immaturity,
insensitivity and bad manners.
- Presenting a list of things they expect from a woman. You've got
to be kidding. Watch her dust.
- Poorly groomed. Try to get a second date after that first impression
is made.
- Under dressed or over dressed for the occasion. If you're not
sure what to wear, call ahead and ask someone the attire.
- Arriving late for the date or to pick her up. The best way to
make someone feel special is to be on time.
- Bad oral hygiene. Remember the commercial. You may not think it's
bad, but what if it is.
- Bad table manners. Keep it simple. If you're not sure if it's
bad, just don't do it.
- Drinking before the date or drinking too much on the date. Warning
Danger Warning Danger Warning Danger - Not a good sign.
- Negative attitude about yourself or your date. Negativity drives
people away quicker than bad breath.
- Not having enough money to pay for the date. Being prepared is
better than being embarrassed.
- Asking breast size or if they're real. Be prepared to answer personal
questions about your private parts.
- Honk the horn instead of going to the door to pick up your date.
Tacky, tacky, tacky. How long are you prepared to wait?
- Discussing who will pay the bill when it arrives instead of beforehand.
This should be covered before going on the date if you expect
to see her again.
- Discuss getting married or having your children. On first dates
this sounds very desperate.
- Asking a woman her weight, age or other personal questions. Those
are very personal issues that don't change anything if you hit
it off.
- Insist on her having a drink if she doesn't want one. No one ever
needs a reason to decline a drink. It's not nice to push it.
- Using foul language or improper English. Shows lack of education
and bad taste.
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